EROS

THANATOS

This is not just touch. It is excavation—through skin, through ache, through breath. Here, sensation is language. Every stroke speaks to what your body remembers, and what it’s ready to let go.

You are not here to perform. You are here to feel. Fully. Deeply. Without apology.

Pain and pleasure are not the point—they are the tools. What matters is what breaks open beneath them.

Come closer. Not everything of you will return.

The Force

Drawn to the edges where sensation becomes revelation. A deep hunger for the sensual, the electric, the true. I move with the urge to command and the need to soothe—one hand at your throat, the other anchoring your breath. Power and tenderness are not in conflict here; they conspire.

This space is about you, not me. But I understand the desire to know the hands that will take you apart. You may call me The Woman or She. I’m in my early 30s, and you’re welcome to reach out in Dutch or English.

The Surrendered

For those who long to be met fully—to be seen, pushed, held, controlled. Seeking the outer reaches of sensation, the places where limits blur into revelation. This is for the ones who ache to be undone, not by chaos, but by deliberate, devoted hands.

No bounds of gender, age, or origin—only the hunger to surrender, and the courage to feel it all.

Devotion

Each session begins in stillness—time set aside to name boundaries, define desires, and drop into presence.

From there, we move through the body: guided by a sensory massage, layered with deliberate tools of intensity that sting just enough.

Not to overwhelm, but to deepen.

PLEASURE TOOLS

Sensory massage
Wax Play
Neurowheel
Tickle Torture
Nipple clamps
Impact play
Sensory deprivation (blindfold)

+ More delights coming soon

TO ENTER

Sessions are offered at 500€ for two hours—ample time to arrive fully, explore the heights, and return with care. For those already in trust and devotion, longer immersions are available.

A 50€ deposit is required to secure our time together, offered discreetly through my wishlist.

I currently hold sessions in East Flanders.

With each new encounter, you’ll be asked to complete a short intake—nothing invasive, nothing that risks your privacy. It’s a way to name your limits, express your desires, and share any history that might shape how you are held. Clarity is care. The more we bring to the surface, the deeper we can go.

THE SHAPE OF THE SESSION

This is a space built on trust, precision, and mutual respect. My limits are not suggestions—they are to be honored without exception, just as I will always honor yours.

Release is often chased as a single, physical peak—understandably so. We’ve been taught to aim for the end. But here, we shift the focus. The session begins the moment you arrive, and what unfolds is not a race to climax, but a layered journey of sensation, presence, and transformation. Physical release is welcome if it comes—but it is not the goal. We give the body space to feel fully, not to perform.
Each session centers around you—your offering, your surrender, your unraveling. Touch flows one way only. This is not a space to take.
I do not offer just massage, nor do I offer domination as a standalone experience. Eros and Thanatos are inseparable.
You submit yourself for what is to come on my table, not a bed, not a sofa. We begin clean, and we end clean. Showering is part of the ritual—done in solitude, a moment to arrive and to return.
After your shower, each session begins with a brief, guided exploration of your physical boundaries. This is not optional—it is a necessary step to attune, to listen, and to ensure your body and nervous system are met with precision and respect. This is where you will begin to feel what it’s like when your body says no—clearly, safely, and without apology. That awareness is essential for everything that follows. Your safety—physical, emotional, and energetic—starts here.
This is not a place for performance or fantasy reenactment. I won’t follow scripts, and I don’t play characters. I meet you as you are—not as you think you should be. Surrender is not something you demand or imitate. It’s something we build, together, in trust.
You must arrive sober, grounded, and emotionally present. This work requires clarity—for both of us.
Phones are off and out of reach during our time. This is not a space to capture. It’s a space to feel.
What we share is real—but it belongs to the container we create together. Outside of that space, I remain at a distance. This isn’t coldness, it’s care. Boundaries are how I protect the depth of the work.

SUBMIT

You may contact me by email instead of the form—but I expect the same depth, clarity, and intention in your message.

She@eros-and-thanatos.com